Sushan wrote: ↑September 7th, 2023, 11:59 pmLeave it, good householder: that one makes one's house, prision, Sisyphus-stupidy.Samana Johann wrote: ↑September 7th, 2023, 1:08 pmI appreciate the clarification. Your mention of the cyclical nature of existence and the transient nature of merits is a somber reminder of the impermanence of all conditioned phenomena. The challenges of navigating samsara, compounded by the influences and predispositions one encounters, can indeed be daunting.Sushan wrote: ↑August 27th, 2023, 1:12 amNot sure if by "this awareness", seeing goodness, gratitude, obligation and by it the burden and suffering, bond by it, was meant by good householder Sushan. But yes, a person of ingratitude is incapable of and higher attainments, incapable of and real grow, not to speak of highest re-lease.Samana Johann wrote: ↑August 24th, 2023, 6:17 pmIt's intriguing to consider the concept that while parents and immediate environment provide a framework, it's ultimately an individual's choices and inclinations that mold their identity. The idea that our tendencies and predispositions are what bind us and dictate our relations is thought-provoking.
Parents, like other relay-tions, are not creator of individuals, but just give occasion, space of being, becoming, yet it's total individual where and for what one has gone for, goes on.
But sure, where one tends to, one's preferences grow. Tendentious addiction is what binds. Beings gather together, again and again, on an element. Yet it's possible to go for better relation, possible to renounce, requiring to abond the cause of bond, the addiction.
It's because of the great debt one owes toward parents, as nobody else gave desired, that increasing one's own goodness and give ways to share encouragement toward virtues back, that an individual encounters better, not worse: gratitude, not demand.
Nobody called one to (be)come.
To build upon that thought, one might say that recognizing these predispositions can be the first step towards conscious self-improvement. Awareness of these tendencies and inclinations, whether they stem from family influences or personal choices, can enable an individual to navigate them more effectively.
Your mention of gratitude and not demand is essential too. Acknowledging and being grateful for the platform that parents or society might have provided doesn't necessitate being bound by their expectations or influences. An individual can choose to carve their path based on self-awareness and introspection, using the foundation laid down by parents and society as a stepping stone rather than a chain.
The essence, perhaps, is that while we might not choose where we begin, it's entirely within our realm to decide where we go. Would you agree that this awareness and the resultant choice hold the key to breaking free from detrimental influences?
Again, right view (gratitude) is the base even for good wandering on in the sensual world, not to speak of higher and beyond.
Being aware of the huge goodness receiving on and on, speak the mass of debt, the mass of suffering, seek for ways out, yet it's seldom, very seldom, that the way might be getting known, based on the urgency of the situation.
So both, seeing burden, dependence and the huge mass of suffering, and the pointing toward the way out, are required. Very very less could figure the path out by themselves.
If not taught, one aware, full of compassion, if good and renounce, would head toward the Brahma-realms. Common religions sometimes, by their influence, can lead there (of which is temporary, and after having consumed all merits of, right back to the lowest stage, hell, ghosts, animal realms.) Like societies, saw 'West' cirrently still enjoy heavens, yet soon will find them in 'hell', once old merits are gone. A wheel...
The scenario you've painted—of societies or individuals rising to celestial-like existences and then plummeting back into challenging realms—underscores the urgency of not merely accumulating merit but seeking true liberation. The precariousness of relying solely on accumulated merit, without striving for a deeper understanding and release, is evident.
The mention of the Brahma-realms as a temporary refuge, followed by the potential fall back into lower realms, brings to mind the impermanence of even the most refined states of existence. It's a potent reminder that even in the highest of heavens, the seeds of decline can be present.
Your insights point to the importance of not just recognizing the suffering inherent in cyclic existence but actively seeking the path out. In your view, what are the most crucial practices or principles for one navigating this journey, especially in the context of influences and society?
And as for the possible 'Führer' aspiration or hope for: once Mara thought to be able to convince the Sublime Buddha, that, because so perfect, why then not doing the role of a righteous World-leader... Knowing how individual kamma and effect works, knowing that beings are heir of their actions, the Buddha had no hard to totally reject the idea. Enough burdensome to lead his disciples who had been willing at least, to leave house and stand outwardly first. So he, out of compassion, did 'just' teach on occasion, sacrificing possibilities on stony fields, while focusing there most, where the most prosperity can be expected.
Appreciation for good householders attentive attitude and capability to follow not only strange speech and words, but also meaning behind, yet why still seeking a burdensome anchor in something subject to decay, never under one's control, a burden? To seek honest for the reason for that tendency would bring good householder toward the source of 'just selfish motivated' waste of time, would let him/her see that actually no idea of that his object is, not even tracing heartwood of control of himself, not even him/herself under firm control.
Mindless, not knowing what's going on within one self, not aware of on'es body, feelings, mind quality, truth, being jump from one object to another, maintain it, not aware of the suffering and constant decay. Not seeing suffering, no way that one would even seek, desire, a way out. May one just spend a minute, a second, and observe how it really does.
Enough now. What's the benefit of redundancy by seeking to hold on, again and again, not willing to, by right deeds, seeing things by oneself and abound the lower fetters, gaining firm confidence, bond toward the deathless by it.