LuckyR wrote: ↑February 25th, 2024, 9:45 pmWhile this approach minimizes encounters with rationalizations by not placing individuals in defensive positions, I wonder about situations where understanding or addressing rationalizations might still be beneficial.Belindi wrote: ↑February 25th, 2024, 9:04 amIn my experience, folks use "rationalizations" when they are feeling defensive, that is they feel they are being judged. Since I: 1) only get involved when invited and 2) focus on meeting the patient's goal, as opposed to how they got to their current state (since they know that already and resent harping on it), I don't actually deal with any rationalizations.LuckyR wrote: ↑February 23rd, 2024, 8:06 pm As to the communication, I personally find it inconceivable that there is a smoker (or alcoholic, or overeater etc) who is unaware of the fact that smoking is bad for them and that they should quit. Thus, for me personally, I don't browbeat folks with unsolicited advice and information they already know. OTOH, if someone reaches out and asks "can you help me quit smoking?", I'll talk their ear off. In my experience there is NO positive effect of not being on your patient's side, thus I'm never in an opposing position to my patients.Good! However can you help an addict to understand if and when they are rationalising the bad choice ? I who have quite a large vocabulary don't know a popular synonym for 'rationalising'. I wonder if there is one. I hope so.
For instance, in scenarios where individuals themselves bring up rationalizations as barriers to their progress, or when they're struggling to recognize these thought patterns independently. Perhaps, in these cases, guiding individuals to identify and work through their rationalizations, in a supportive and non-judgmental manner, could further empower them in their journey towards recovery.
In your experience, have there been moments where addressing rationalizations, directly or indirectly, contributed to a breakthrough in the patient's journey? And how might we, as supporters, better equip ourselves to navigate these nuanced interactions?
– William James