Fanman wrote: ↑January 17th, 2019, 2:03 pm
I think that's correct. A moral relativist may have, say, a code of conduct, so does a moral absolutist. Both believe in a way of living and both have principles that they adhere to. A moral absolutist may adhere to Jesus' famous “do unto others, as you would do unto yourself” maxim, whereas a moral relativist, not being religious, may adhere to the “golden rule” maxim, which is effectively the same thing. DM sees a strong distinction between the two, and epistemologically there may be, but effectively there isn't as they're both adhering to standards of morality, albeit not from the same perspectives.
Though the relativist could not think of what they are doing as good, nor can they criticize others for their behavior. Perhaps, they can accuse someone of being a hypocrite, but then they are trying to engage the other person's morality against them. They can certainly care about others, but there is no need for a maxim, either their desire pulls them to do this or not. It would be strange for them to try to live up to or follow a maxim. Why? one has no way of knowing if it is better than any other maxim, according to their own beliefs. They can say, Oh, I hate Trump. I don't like what is happening, but they cannot mount a moral case against him, or more important in any discussion of morals. At a meeting at work they can say 'I'd like us to....X' But they cannot say that Joe who doesn't want to recycle is wrong. They are out of the game of convincing others of the better way to live. Unless, in a Machievellian sense they pretend to have morals to make the world how they want it to be. Which, actually, is fine, or at least consistant, if in a sense hypocritical but not bad.
I agree. I think that moral absolutists will think negatively of anyone who doesn't conform to their understanding of principles; hence DM's comment in reply to me “I cannot imagine a better example of moral cowardice.” I haven't thought about it enough to feel sure, but I think that a moral relativist would be more accepting of another person's principles, even if they personally reject them, because they don't view things in absolute terms. I think that the problem with any form of absolutism, is that anyone who disagrees becomes the enemy, which (if he will excuse me) leads to a siege, mentality like DM seems to display.
Though I think he is, perhaps not clearly, responding to people who are also absolutists but call themselves or try to appear as relativists. IOW they dislike religious people for have a set of deontological rules. But you'll notice that they also condemn as evil fundamentalists or homophobes or republicans or the Tea party. It's a cake and eat it too position. And one that I think has actually gotten out of hand.
There are so many cultural, habitual, corporate cultural, habit based things that do not matter to me. I am a relativist regarding those. But I do have something quite similar to absolute stands.
You like some of the absolutists will have stuff you just think is wrong and will fight just as hard against. YOu may make some epistemological caveats, but IRL we will see angry, condemning, judgmental behavior based on moral positions. I think both sides work under this illusion that many people are relativists. I don't believe it.
So if you imagine his anger aimed at people claiming to be relativists who in the next sentence will condemn him on moral grounds, you might understand his rage. (DM may not agree with me in my analysis, he may think they really are relativists, but his descriptions include moral condemnations from their side, so I don't buy it. But hereäs the key thing: these faux relativists may well think they are not moral judgers, that they always see two sides or more, that they are acccepting and more loving. I am sure there are some people like this, but there are very few of them.)
Even a moral absolutist can deal with those they disagree with in nuanced non-agressive not binary ways. A Martin Luther King, say.
Most of us are not open to seeing pedophilia involving, especially, our own children, in relative terms. Like, no, I see the possible truth in both sides and I can't decide which is right.
And at war demonstrations and counterdemonstrations, we do not have relativists vs. absolutists, we have a clash of morals. Likewise at abortion pro and con demonstrations. Likewise around Trump.
It's this weird and I think sick collusion between both sides to think, generally, the left are relativists. They both feed this illusion, and both have strong psychological reasons for doing this. The absolutists don't like getting down in the epistemology of their morals (how they know they are right) and the lefties are still trying to disidentify with various churches. These day it should be clear that everybody has their index finger out and think that finger is empowered but THE TRUTH.