Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑November 23rd, 2024, 9:22 am
Sy Borg wrote: ↑November 22nd, 2024, 5:37 pm
It's hard to admit that some people are smarter and more capable than you are.
No, it isn't. If nothing else, growing up as an autist in NT society teaches us this lesson, however hard it may be for us to learn. I am happy to admit that "some people are smarter and more capable than" I am. ... Although I have noticed that, if I am unwise enough to claim that *I* am "smarter or more capable" than some others, it is considered arrogant and boastful. And it is disbelieved without further consideration. Humility is praised and accepted, but the opposite is not. Oh well... 😐
Perhaps the important point here, coming back a little onto topic, is that the rich are not rich because they are more capable, but because they are less moral — willing to do whatever it takes to become, and to remain, rich.
I think you grossly underestimate the abilities and qualities needed to be successful. Ruthlessness is indeed one quality that's proved useful and, it seems, is essential to thrive in the top end of business and politics. You have to be a "killer", a predator, rather than prey. These are the alphas, the silverbacks of wider society (though they would not be alpha in a rough bar room, which has physically robust alphas).
Life is inherently competitive. Large societies tend to out-compete smaller ones. Large societies can only form if the vast majority of members are "domesticated" - good-natured, generally well-intentioned. and non-violent. However, large societies are complex, with increasing specialisation. Thus, some members need to be ruthless (leaders, farmers), uncaring (surgeons, pilots) or violent (police, military). By the same token, some need to be especially sensitive and caring, who excel in human/health services.
As an autist, it would be logical to support such pluralism and accept different qualities of people in different positions, as it has allowed you (analytics mathematical, not very social) to find a niche. Likewise, it's irrational for extraverts to judge or mock autistic spectrum people.
Don't be jealous. Marvel at the myriad abilities and qualities of people.
Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑November 23rd, 2024, 9:22 am
Sy Borg wrote: ↑November 22nd, 2024, 5:37 pm
If you are not rich and resentful of this, chances are that you cannot admit your limitations, and are jealous of those with the ability to make things happen and follow through in the long term.
I assume this is a general comment, not aimed specifically at me. I suppose there's an element of truth in it, for some people, at least...?
It's as natural for people with certain aptitudes and circumstance to gain power and not always wield it objectively as it's natural for others to resent that. All part of the usual argy-bargy. There is currently internal competition between various demographics. I see it as destructive, cancerous, to society as a whole. If the competition involves aspects of people that they can work on and improve, that can strengthen society. OTOH, if the competition is between groups based on qualities of birth, that cannot be changed, then it's divisive and harmful to society.