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Edah Chemonges wrote: ↑June 3rd, 2024, 11:29 pm The book certainly criticizes the idea that external achievements, such as wealth, can bring lasting happiness and describes this pursuit as the "hedonic treadmill," where individuals continuously chase after material gains, believing they will eventually find contentment, but never truly achieving inner peace. However, I think this idea is counterintuitive.For short, I'd rather have money and I'll work on my happiness later. To me, it's better to be depressed with a million in my account than to laugh with 0 balances. I also think it's easier to create scenarios that make you happy when you have money.
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote: ↑December 18th, 2023, 12:00 pm If you haven't already, you can sign up to be personally mentored by Scott "Eckhart Aurelius" Hughes at this link.I agree that money doesn't buy happiness, but I'm afraid I have to disagree that happiness can get you money.
This is for those who think they are unhappy because they are too poor or not quite rich enough yet...
What if I told you that your nasty attitude causes your lack of success, rather than vice versa?
Money doesn't buy happiness, but true happiness (e.g. practicing radical acceptance of what you cannot control, practicing consistent daily gratitude, and being an actually pleasant person that people like to be around) buys money and gets you huge success in all sorts of fields.
You might be surprised how well you can play the cards you're dealt once you stop wasting ANY of your very limited time, energy, or resources counter-productively bitching about them, with a huge miserable frown or an angry resentful yell, or a clingy jealous ungrateful off-putting desperation, with your very presence to other people feeling like a dark rainy cloud.
Your miserable bitching and frowns are contagious, and the person most infected by your own contagious wasteful impoverishing misery is the person you will be tomorrow and then the day after that.
True happiness is a mindset built on habits. You can't win it at a casino. It costs nothing and you can only give it to yourself, or choose not to. But once you choose to have it, to give it to yourself, nobody can take it from you. That's why I call it invincible inner peace. You can end up as a prisoner in a Nazi concentration camp, and you'd still have it. It's that damn invincible. It's that damn powerful.
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