- February 16th, 2023, 4:17 am
#435191
I think that one problem in discussing this question is the fact that we think in concepts rather than with reference to experience. If you say “I don't believe in "shoulds" or "oughts" or other moralizing” that means you are against a set of standards that enable people to live cooperatively in groups, which in view of the huge population we have would be counterproductive. We must find agreement on certain aspects of life as soon as two people come together, and as soon as a third person joins, it can become complicated. So, the complication around forming huge groups, societies, and nations, let alone multinational organisations are very obvious.
I think that our biggest problem stems from the tendency to exclude, not only physically, but also mentally, especially to the point where we deny people existence, or affiliation to the human race. This goes beyond disagreeing with people, or struggling to find what is really wholesome and beneficial for all, but is rather the end of discussion and debate, the rejection of dissent, and an authoritarian intervention, which we see continually happening throughout history. If authoritarian rule is what you mean by being unfit to govern, I agree, but what does govern mean? To exercise authority over people doesn’t necessarily mean authoritarianism, but does require a set of agreed policies, which (to some degree unfortunately) a majority decides upon. Even then, we can investigate how much leeway we can give people who see it differently.
The point is though, that the tendency to exclude people for non-conformity has continually been an oppressive attribute of society, which we can clearly see in the treatment of homosexuals up until it was decriminalised only 50 years ago. There are many other ways in which people didn’t conform or dissented from popular opinion, and many suffered, even though some were lauded for their work after their deaths. It is this tendency that goes beyond discrimination, beyond distinguishing differences, and denies the “other” a place in society, where governing takes a turn for the worse.
At the same time, malignant tendencies in society must not be allowed to take their toll. Traditionally, women and children were said to be protected, but even here, it was certain women and children, and those in the work houses or on the streets were excluded. But those elements of society that prey on others must be discriminated and restricted, excluded from certain social freedoms, but still exclusion from humanity is not the solution. But here, once again, we are talking about "shoulds" and "oughts," and an agreed social standard.
“Find someone who makes you realise three things:
One, that home is not a place, but a feeling.
Two, that time is not measured by a clock, but by moments.
And three, that heartbeats are not heard, but felt and shared.”
― Abhysheq Shukla