Re: Is there such a thing as an innate sense of gender?
Posted: April 2nd, 2024, 11:02 am
Fried Egg wrote: ↑April 2nd, 2024, 5:15 amThat's the issue. It's so easy to go through life without giving gender a second thought, if one isn't a keen feminist or masculist. It would surely suck greatly to have to deal with gender as an issue. It's basically a life handicap.Sy Borg wrote:Are you capable of empathy, putting yourself in another's shoes?I do not see why having many behavioural traits that are normally associated with the opposite sex mean that you would feel that your sex/gender is wrong. Indeed, I have known many camp men/butch women who are perfectly happy with their sex/gender. That said, I'm aware there are people out there who are not happy with their gender, that this feeling can make them deeply unhappy and I do sympathise though I find it hard to empathise because, as I have stated many times in this thread, I am not aware of my own sense of gender.
Most people take gender identity for granted because they are masculine males and feminine females. Can you imagine what its like to not like as you are? Can you empathise?
Fried Egg wrote: ↑April 2nd, 2024, 5:15 amI think this "children growing out of dysphoria" is a recent phenomenon. Back when transgenderism was a stigma rather than trendy, gender variant kids either suffered in silence (since you never seemed to see or hear of them), presumably until they grew into their gayness or became old enough to change over. Either that, or they were open and ended up in psychiatrist offices.Sy Borg wrote:Clearly your claim that modern society is "too free" in its gender norms is off, given the many thousands who experience gender dysphoria - people who find living in their physical gender so disturbing that some commit suicide. Transpeople have a ridiculous suicide rate, that would be a national scandal if it applied to a group of people that society cared about.But that is offset by the examples of those children, who given enough time will grow through their gender dysphoria. And still others who have transitioned and yet regret it later. I'm not saying all gender dysphoric people will change their mind/regret transitioning. It only causes one to think we should be very careful about applying treatments that physically damage your body, sometimes including being sterilised or unable to climax.