Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑October 31st, 2024, 8:44 am
Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑October 30th, 2024, 10:40 am
Sy Borg wrote: ↑October 29th, 2024, 4:47 pm
Thing is, it's alright not to care.
I disagree.
Pattern-chaser
"Who cares, wins"
Are you saying that you would beat me in a caring contest? Bully for you.
Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑October 31st, 2024, 8:44 am
Sy Borg wrote: ↑October 30th, 2024, 4:53 pm
A solid piece of virtue signalling, which - like all virtue signalling - is meaningless since you can't possibly care about the 300 million+ people in grinding poverty, suicide rates rapidly climbing due to widespread growing despair, and many millions of animals suffering gruesome deaths every day. You don't care because you can't care. The scope is vastly beyond you, if you are to be honest.
Actually, I do care about all those people. But your point is valid and correct. It's like the care must be diluted for each person, in order to reach all of them at once. It can't be as ... caring when there are so many involved.
You cannot care about those you don't know. You can have moments of sentimentality and send a relative pittance in charity that will change nothing, but that's it.
Pattern-chaser wrote: ↑October 31st, 2024, 8:44 am
Wikipedia wrote:
The term virtue signalling refers to the act of expressing opinions or stances that align with popular moral values, often through social media, with the intent of demonstrating one's good character. While the expression might sometimes be sincere, it is frequently used pejoratively to suggest that the person is more concerned with appearing virtuous than with actually supporting the cause or belief in question.
If this is the meaning of that phrase, I deny it, and express my sorrow at your lack of care; in this case, for me. You judge my actions too harshly and, it seems, with ill intent. You have no idea what I care about, or why. But I really don't like one of my core beliefs to be trivialised and devalued as you have done here. Please don't do it again. Thanks.
Your core beliefs are to care more than other people do? Do you see others who care less than you do - who have different core beliefs - as being less good than you, less ethical? Perhaps you see this as having a greater qualification to adjudicate on misinformation?
As for "ill intent", it seems you have been infected with today's penchant for taking offence. Yes, I'm calling you out for affectations and maintaining double-standards, but not damning you as a human being. I can be abrasive, weird and annoying, and I have worse navigation skills than anyone I've ever known (aside from my late mother). So what? None of us are perfect.
We all emerge from the Earth, bumble around in various ways for a while, and then return. Somehow this process has run over billions of years from igneous rocks and minerals to today's humanity and wildlife. Thus, all the suckiness - wars, injustices, inequalities, violence, cruelty, selfishness and denials of freedom of movement and speech, ultimately worked out for the best (unless one thinks like Benetar).
At no stage has the Pale Blue Dot baulked at putting its emanations through the grinder in its relentless entropic quest for equilibrium while under a barrage of solar and cosmic rays. So it's rather a waste of energy to always bemoan that brute fact.
I used to think very much like you. I know I was virtue signalling. I wanted to be trusted as a "good person" so I tried really hard. Then I found out that I was not so good in a relative sense, that people I assumed to be less virtuous because they were less ostensibly caring than me had their own virtues, often above and beyond my own in a practical sense. It's performative.
Ultimately, most people are good (unless they are denied nine meals, of course) because large societies out-competed smaller ones. Large societies have been selected. Large societies need mostly cooperative denizens to exist. So "nice" people are the norm today - we have been selected.
Of course - people being people - they sometimes compete, trying to be the nicest of the nice. Then they die, and are replaced by a new batch of nice people.
So no, like most others, I don't care about those in faraway lands, other than the occasional sentimental twinge at the mainstream media's endless stream of distorted horrors, designed to manipulate our inherent negativity bias. I suspect the situation is not actually so different with you. It depends on how much we identify with our sentimental twinges.