Grecorivera5150 wrote:Can religion be considered a form of child abuse? The use of fear tactics and imposed guilt on a young mind in a coercive way can have debilitating affects. I was not forced to go to church until I was 11 so I was in the middle of puberty and had already shrugged off Santa Claus the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy by this time and in so doing had developed an intuition towards empiricism. Throw in familial pressure to conform on top of the emotional coercion and you have a potential recipe for massive amounts of existential angst during critical years of human development. ...My mom liked to go to church on Sunday; dad less enthusiastic. But our religion (Presbyterianism) was never used as a scare tactic. Bible was never forced on us, altho what I knew of it were the fairy tales: Jesus's birth & the Sermon on the Mount.
When the folks were older & we boys were outta the house, mom went to church alone: she joined the choir & she liked certain pastors. We joined her during the Christmas season. Even dad went, altho he remained a reluctant congregant.
Religion as abuse is the domain of the believer, not the religion. Mom liked to listen to people of all faiths: she grew up in a Lutheran orphanage, lived w/ a Jewish woman (when I asked, mom denied she was Jewish, but where would mom've picked up common Yiddish words like "tuchis" & "chutzpah?") as a teen, & invited Jehovah's Witnesses into her home. I never felt abused by going to church & listening to sermons. I know there are people that use their religion as a means of coercion, but I suspect that's a prime example of having other gods before Him.