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Thomas D Flowers wrote: July 24th, 2024, 1:56 am I wish to write my first book and be a published author. I haven't written a book before. But what gave courage and wish for it is that I think I have talent in creative thinking and writing down my thoughts.

What advise do you have for me to make this a concrete reality?
Hi, Thomas D Flowers,

That question was already asked and answered earlier in the Q&A:

What advice would you give to aspiring authors who are just starting their writing journey?


Moving forward, please do make sure to read all the previous Q&As before asking a new question to make sure the question hasn't already been asked and answered.


With love,
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes
a.k.a. Scott
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I've read your book, "In It Together," and I understand your perspective about different concepts developed. However, I have a question that is not directly taken from what I read in the book. I believe in pursuing what you in life. If one is achieved, still have another one and so on. I have heard people saying if you tried achieving something you want, and it is not seeming achievable, can they quit pursuing?
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Hi Scott,

COVID-19 was an especially difficult time for many. During that time my daughter (who was about 9 then) had become very sensitive; while watching the movie Soul, we ended up stopping the movie midway because she was terribly upset imagining what would happen if my husband and/or I died for some reason. We assumed it was the lockdown that was causing her to feel so low. However, I worry sometimes thinking if something were to really happen to either of us, how she'd cope. I know it is not something I can control; however, I wonder if there's a way to discuss death with a child (almost a teenager) and prepare them. Do have any advice you can share?
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This was a detailed answer and shows you practice what you preach. I know the suggestions in your book are quite a lot and simple also. However, I believe it's going to take self-descipline and patience to get myself to the place of freedom and high productivity, Thank you Scott.
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Sandre Lamar wrote: August 2nd, 2024, 7:04 pm I've read your book, "In It Together," and I understand your perspective about different concepts developed. However, I have a question that is not directly taken from what I read in the book. I believe in pursuing what you in life. If one is achieved, still have another one and so on. I have heard people saying if you tried achieving something you want, and it is not seeming achievable, can they quit pursuing?
Hi, Sandre Lamar,

Sorry, your question is not written in coherent English, and thus I don't understand it at all.

Can you please carefully proofread it repeatedly, editing it both for grammatical correctness and for clarity, and then re-post the proofread coherent clear version of the question?


With love,
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes
a.k.a. Scott
Favorite Philosopher: Eckhart Aurelius Hughes
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Gladis Ratish Kumar wrote: July 23rd, 2024, 5:11 am When you reflect on your past, what are the things you wish you could have changed?
Hi, Gladis Ratish Kumar,

Thank you for your question! :)

Per the teachings in my book, I fully and unconditionally accept that which I do not control and cannot change (e.g. my past) with an acceptance so full and unconditional it warrants the word love.
 
In other words, per the teachings in my book, I wholeheartedly love all aspects of unchangeable reality, including everything that's in my past. In yet other words, I love my past exactly as it is. I wouldn't change a thing. I don't wish for unchangeable aspects of reality (such as my past) to be different than they are.
 
In fact, my book is so clear about the above that I am a little surprised to even get this question from someone who has read my book in full and confirmed understanding every sentence.
 
For that reason, I strongly recommend you re-read my book, In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us All.
 
I think there are some key teachings in it that you may have unknowingly missed the first time you read it, so I think it will be a great benefit to you to read it again.


With love,
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a.k.a. Scott



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Nisha DSouza wrote: August 4th, 2024, 10:14 am Hi Scott,

COVID-19 was an especially difficult time for many. During that time my daughter (who was about 9 then) had become very sensitive; while watching the movie Soul, we ended up stopping the movie midway because she was terribly upset imagining what would happen if my husband and/or I died for some reason. We assumed it was the lockdown that was causing her to feel so low. However, I worry sometimes thinking if something were to really happen to either of us, how she'd cope. I know it is not something I can control; however, I wonder if there's a way to discuss death with a child (almost a teenager) and prepare them. Do have any advice you can share?
Hi, Nisha DSouza,

Thank you for your question! :)

The meaning of your question (and thus my answer to it) would vary depending on what exactly you mean by the word "prepare".
 
For example, is your goal that your child will not feel any sadness or grief when you die? Is your goal that your child will not cry when you die? Is your goal that your child won't go through the five stages of grief when you die? Is your goal that your child will become psychopathic or sadistic, at least in relation to you and their father specifically? Is your goal that your child will show apathy or even glee when you die?
 
If not, then what is your goal? What would it mean for your child to be "prepared" for your death?
 
I hope my children are extremely sad when I die. I hope they cry. A lot.
 
Otherwise, it would indicate I either raised psychopaths or at least kids who hate me or such.
 
To each their own, but I prefer a life in which I deeply experience the vast and diverse range of human emotions and feelings. I prefer a life with the biggest ups and biggest downs, like a very dramatic and engaging movie.
 
The ups and downs are always perfectly balanced in a yin-yang way. The proverbial roller coaster always ends where it begins, thus having a net zero elevation. In the end, the total it's gone up is precisely equal to the total it's gone down, giving both a total and an average of zero change in elevation. From ashes to ashes; from dust to dust.
 
But how exciting it was, how many ups and downs there were, how big the ups were versus how deep the downs were... All of that can vary a lot from one life to another.
 
I don't want to live life on a kiddie coaster. And I don't want my kids to either.
 
That's one reason I personally would never take mood-dampening antidepressants, and I generally would encourage my kids to not take them either, if it ever came up.
 
Whatever the opposite of antidepressants is, I want that drug.
 
I am reminded of this song by Mikey Mike, in which he says, "I don't wanna be comfortable! I wanna be scared out of my head and lost out of my mind. I wanna fall in and out of love, a few thousand times."
 
I am reminded of this Instagram post, in which I write in part, "I can only be as good as my toughest opponent... Every single day I say to life, 'That's all you got, Life? Come on. Be a worthier opponent, Life. Come harder, Life. Surprise me. Give me your best, because that's the only way I can be my best.'"
 
 
I want the same for my kids.
 
I want them to feel great sadness. I want them to feel great pain. I want them to battle temptation. I want them to learn for themselves first-hand how miserable the illusion of spiritual slavery is. I want them to learn for themselves how wonderful the grace of emerging from that hellish illusion to find true spiritual freedom is. I want them to get to ride the wildest, most intense, most dramatic roller coaster that ever existed, at least figuratively, if not also literally.
 
 
Nisha, I want to give you great advice on how to achieve your goal, whatever it is. But to do that, I would first need to know what your goal is. To know what your goal is, I need to know what you mean by the word "prepare" in your question above.
 
What would it mean for your kids to be "prepared" for your death exactly? How would that look both before and after your death? What would need to be there for them to be considered prepared? What would need to not be there for them to be prepared? Tears? Money? A place to live?
 
I encourage you to re-ask your question with more elaboration about what your goal is and what you mean by the word "prepared", and then I will do my best to help you achieve that goal.



Thank you,
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a.k.a. Scott



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Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote: August 13th, 2024, 11:42 am
What would it mean for your child to be "prepared" for your death?
 
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Nisha, I want to give you great advice on how to achieve your goal, whatever it is. But to do that, I would first need to know what your goal is. To know what your goal is, I need to know what you mean by the word "prepare" in your question above.
 
Hi Scott,

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply.

It is perfectly okay going through the grieving process after the death of a loved one and I understand it is very much needed in the healing process. It's not about money, or about a place to live. I know she will do just great in those regards because we have always encouraged her to follow her passion. My goal is that after the grieving process, she has the inner peace to get on with her life.
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Nisha DSouza wrote: August 16th, 2024, 2:54 pm
Hi Scott,

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply.

It is perfectly okay going through the grieving process after the death of a loved one and I understand it is very much needed in the healing process. It's not about money, or about a place to live. I know she will do just great in those regards because we have always encouraged her to follow her passion. My goal is that after the grieving process, she has the inner peace to get on with her life.
Hi, Nisha DSouza,
 
Thank you for your question. :D
 
Assuming I am understanding correctly, this is essentially what you are asking:
 
How can I help my 12-year-old daughter develop invincible unwavering free-spirited inner peace (a.k.a. true happiness) so that she is prepared to deal with all the many challenges, brutal heartbreaks, tearful material losses, and wild unpredictable ups and downs that life will inevitably throw at her like it does to all humans?
 
 
As I am sure you know, to have true free-spirited inner peace is to have a form of deep spiritual resilience. It is to be resilient to a degree and depth that at least seems supernatural. It is to have grace, especially in the sense of having grace under fire.
 
A person with free-spirited inner peace doesn't just have grace under fire, but rather they have grace especially when under fire.
 
Thus, proverbially speaking, one who has inner peace tends to be grateful when there is fire. They are eagerly grateful when forced to feel great bodily pain, fear, and discomfort. They are grateful for the dark because it is what lets their light shine. They don't see the dark as an enemy of their light or the proverbial fire as an enemy of their grace, but rather as a welcomed means to it. Without darkness, you have no light. Without fire, you effectively have no grace.
 
Free-spirited inner peace isn't something one has intermittently. Freedom, by definition, is holistic.
 
You do not just want your daughter to have inner peace after she goes through the grieving process due to some major material loss (e.g. the death of one or both of her parents), because that would indicate she doesn't really have inner peace. Rather, you want her to also have inner peace before, during, and throughout the grieving process.
 
It will be the constant that exists during both the fleeting ups and fleeting downs of the roller coaster of life and ego.
 
Once you understand the concept of the "Two Yous" from my book, In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us All, you then understand that there are effectively two forms of happiness:
 
First is the happiness of the false self, meaning the body and ego. This could even be called "false happiness" or "unreal happiness" since it is of the false and unreal self (a.k.a. the ego). However, I typically just call it "comfort". In that way, "comfort addiction" is, at least in part, if not in whole, simply the state of falsely identifying with the ego (i.e. with the false self). Then, due to that false identification, the downs of the body and ego feel like real downs for the real you. It's a hellish illusion, but the hellishness of a hellish illusion is real. When you think the roller coaster can actually hurt you, those downs can become overwhelmingly frightening.
 
Second is what I call invincible unwavering "true happiness" or invincible unwavering "inner peace". It can even be called invincible unwavering "spiritual fulfillment".
 
The body and ego are fed with comfort, including literal food as well as things like sex, drugs, alcohol, gambling, cigarette smoking, and attention-getting. The comfort is always fleeting because the body and ego are never satiated, and they are doomed to die and be forgotten in the blink of a cosmic eye. If aliens visit Earth in a billion years, they probably won't be able to even tell that humans ever existed. There could have been a hyper-intelligent race of creatures, smarter than humans, who lived on Earth a billion years ago, and we wouldn't know. There would be no trace of them.
 
In contrast, the spirit, meaning the real you, can be satiated and, in some sense, always is. The spiritual misery, the lack of spiritual fulfillment, and the spiritual slavery only ever exist as an illusion, albeit a very hellish illusion, whose tortuousness and hellishness are real. The real you is always satiated and free, but it can suffer under the illusion that it isn't satiated and/or isn't free, which (perhaps ironically) feels just as miserable as truly being unsatiated or unfree.
 
Your question to me is how to help your daughter develop and have that second kind of happiness, meaning true happiness (a.k.a. free-spirited inner peace).
 
There is no sure way, of course. As my book teaches, the only person you can directly save is yourself. For better or worse, be it seen as unfortunate or not, that is simply the nature of self-discipline, self-determination, and self-responsibility. Of course, another word for 'self' is 'spirit', and so a word like self-discipline is just a synonym for 'spiritual freedom', and by extension, inner peace (a.k.a. true happiness) and spiritual fulfillment. Even the word 'inner' is yet another synonym referring to the same spirit / true self. There are a lot of words for it, but they all point to the same one thing.
 
With that said, the best way to get your kids to do anything or to adopt and have any habit is by doing that thing yourself and sticking to that habit yourself.
 
Generally speaking, your kids won't do what you tell them to do; they will do what you do.
 
If you tell your kids to practice gratitude and be grateful all the time, but you are consistently ungrateful and resentful, then almost certainly your kids will grow up to be miserable ungrateful resenters themselves.
 
You will talk to them the way you talk to yourself, and they will instinctively talk to themselves the way you talk to them. If you hear a voice in your head, as most people do, that voice is modeled after your parents. If your parents constantly said to you with a critical tone things like, "You are not good enough. You are not doing well enough. You shouldn't have done that. You could have done better. You need to do better. You ought to do better," well, then I can almost guarantee that your inner monologue now is filled with those miserable self-critical "shoulds" and "could haves" and such. It's an infectious disease, passed on from parent to child. It's a misery-inducing virus, just a memetic one instead of a genetic one.
 
If, throughout your kid's entire childhood, you consistently have invincible free-spirited inner peace (a.k.a. true happiness, self-discipline, and an unwavering sense of constant spiritual fulfillment), then your kid almost certainly will have those same wonderful traits when they grow up.
 
In contrast, if you don't, then they won't.
 
Teach and inspire your kids to have inner peace by consistently having it yourself.
 
Teach and inspire your kids to feel constantly grateful no matter what, and never be willfully resentful or judgmental, by doing that yourself throughout their childhood.
 
It doesn't matter much what you tell them to do because they won't do what you tell them to do, not in the long run. It matters what kind of role model you are for them. It matters what example you set. When it comes to raising kids, that is pretty much all that matters.
 
Those who think their children are that different from themselves probably simply lack self-awareness.
 
To achieve what you want to achieve, Nisha, I think you are already on exactly the track you want to be on.
 
For more on this topic, I suggest also reading through these previous Q&As:
 
 
What is your approach to raising children, especially keeping in mind the eleven suggestions at the end of your book?
 
 
Since you do your best to be as un-motivated as humanly possible, does that mean you let your kids grow up without any parental guidance?



With love,
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Your book systematically challenges traditional moral and linguistic concepts, such as the existence of evil and the use of 'shoulds.' Are these challenges intended to completely dismantle these concepts in favor of a new framework, or are they meant to provoke a deeper critical examination of our assumptions within existing frameworks? In other words, do you see your philosophy as a replacement for conventional morality, or as a tool to question it?
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Hello Scott, I am looking to start a new business but I have this fear I won't be able to see it through to the finish line. I have this fear that it won't workout for me so I am doubting myself every single time. I need your advice, should I just power through or get help or advice from professionals or maybe someone in the same field. Thank you
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Tush4Christ wrote: August 27th, 2024, 2:17 am Your book systematically challenges traditional moral and linguistic concepts, such as the existence of evil and the use of 'shoulds.' Are these challenges intended to completely dismantle these concepts in favor of a new framework, or are they meant to provoke a deeper critical examination of our assumptions within existing frameworks? In other words, do you see your philosophy as a replacement for conventional morality, or as a tool to question it?
Hi, Tush4Christ,

Thank you for your question! :)

The short answer would be that I don't think it's exactly accurate to say that my book "challenges traditional, moral and linguistic concepts".
 
The longer answer is this...
 
Traditions vary greatly from culture to culture, from region to region, and from religion to religion.
 
There are about 195 countries in the world. Each has its own traditions, and many have multiple different conflicting sets of traditions.
 
Very roughly speaking, there are about 4,000 different religions in the world. And, needless to say, generally speaking, at most one of those religions could be true. That's at most. At most, one is right. Otherwise, none are.
 
In a sense, we can say that each and every one religion challenges all the 3,999+ other ones.
 
Does my book challenge all 4,000? I don't think so. In fact, I don't think it challenges any of these 4,000 different traditions.
 
At most one of them could be right, but if one of them turns out to be right, then it and my book can probably both be right.
 
The many countless various traditions contradict themselves, but I don't contradict them.
 
 
I suspect it would at best be a little misleading to talk about what we might label "non-religious traditions" since presumably all traditions started as part of a religion or mythology, namely since if you go back far enough all of our ancestors were religious.
 
Anything that's not religious is thus, also new age and non-traditional.
 
Nonetheless, the same logic would apply anyway.
 
In other words, even if it did make sense to talk about "non-religious traditions", then, still, I'd be no more challenging any of those various different so-called traditions (which often contradict and challenge each other) than I am challenging any of the thousands and thousands of various different religions in the world (which likewise contradict and challenge each other).
 
The reason I can build such a powerful philosophy without challenging them is this: Unlike religions, social conservatives, and traditionalists, on the issues and questions they disagree so nastily and extremely with each other, I am more than happily eager to say, "I don't know", or say, "On that, I'm agnostic".
 
If you find a Protestant Christian arguing with a Catholic about some religious tradition or religious belief, and then ask me which side in the debate I take, my answer would almost certainly be "neither". Even if I agree that one of them has to be right (i.e. they are arguing a question that has only two possible answers), I will still almost certainly honestly say that I don't know which one is right.
 
The same goes if it's a Jewish person arguing with a Hindu or a Muslim arguing with a Zoroastrian.
 
And the same goes if two non-religious people from two different countries are arguing about which of their very different cultural traditions is right or whatever.
 
I don't challenge them; they challenge each other.
 
My book openly admits in the introduction to not having all the answers, and indeed to not even coming close to having all the answers.
 
I don't know if all these religious people and all the people subscribing to these different traditions that contradict each other do so because they feel some desperate need to have all the answers or answer everything, or if they just somehow come to think they do despite not having it. I don't know if they have some emotional dislike or phobia of saying, "I don't know" to things, or if it's something else that causes them to believe they alone have all the answers and that all the many other traditions are wrong.
 
Almost all of them have to be utterly wrong because they contradict each other. But I don't know which one is the exception, if one even is. And I leave it at that, so I don't challenge any of them.
 
Finally, it's worth noting that any semantic debate in English likely has nothing to do with traditions and such because English is so relatively new.
 
Anytime someone claims, in English, that their religion/tradition requires them to believe in shoulds or such, my first bet by far would be that they are translating it poorly and that it would be more clearly translated into English in a different way.
 
For example, I believe it's more clear and accurate to say, "There's an invisible guy in the sky with nipples who doesn't like pork, shellfish, or gay stuff who will punish a copy of you in a fire pit if you eat pork, eat shellfish, or do gay stuff", than to say, "Eating pork is evil!" or "Homosexuality is immoral!"
 
In other words, just as an example, I don't think my book would challenge a religion/tradition that is anti-gay or anti-pork-eating or anti-working-on-Sundays or such. Instead, I think the teachings of my book are compatible with that religion/tradition just as they are with every other religion/tradition, and following its teachings would help the person better understand and convey their beliefs.
 
For example, if someone believes in the teachings of Leviticus, and they go up to someone eating pork and scream, "That's evil", then the pork-eater won't even understand what they mean, because it is basically gibberish, at least out of context, and said to someone who doesn't share the same superstitions. In contrast, if they went to someone eating pork and said either of the following, the pork-eater would understand and likely just be happily interested to learn more:
 
"I believe there is an invisible man in the sky who has nipples, and he watches everything we do. He's like Santa Claus, but real; at least, I believe so. And he doesn't like people eating pork. He commands you to not eat pork. And if you keep eating pork, he will punish you, but not now, after your body gets declared dead. You see, you don't really die when you think you die. Instead, a copy of you is transported somewhere else, and then the invisible man will punish or reward you at that point based on whether or not you ate pork."
 
 
"In the country in which I grew up, we traditionally wouldn't eat pork."
 
 
 
Whether anti-porkism or non-pork-eating is a religious thing or some kind of non-religious tradition, either way, my book doesn't challenge it.
 
It's other religions/traditions that would challenge it, and neither my book nor I have a dog in that fight.
 
The anti-pork person can read and agree with my book just as much as anyone else.
 
Of course, the pork thing is just an example. Generally speaking, the same goes for everything else.
 
Generally, anyone from any religion/tradition can adopt the agreeable truths in my book, and then from there, they will be able to much more clearly explain their religion/tradition/beliefs/practices/rituals to others, especially those who don't happen to share them. For example, it's much clearer and met with more interest and acceptance when one explains one's superstitions/religion/traditions/habits if one doesn't use 'shoulds' and other gibberish to explain them.
 
"I believe there is a god who wants you to do X," is much clearer than saying, "You shouldn't do X! It's evil!"
 
"In my country, where I grew up, we never work on Saturdays," is much clearer than saying, "I can't work on Saturday! That would be evil!"
 
 
My book does not challenge the actual concepts, but rather my book shows how the gibberish that is often sloppily used in relation to those concepts falsely causes an illusion of disagreement in a way that is especially prone to misguided resentment and misery.
 
No matter what one's religion, culture, country, or tradition, one can adopt the teachings of my book to find great clarity and inner peace.
 
You do not need to give up your religion or traditions to find that clarity.
 
The teachings in my book—the clarity and revelations my book provides—are the baby in the bathwater of most religions and traditions, the very thing that tends to make one so undesiring of throwing out their religion or traditions.
 
My book doesn't challenge religions or traditions. Rather, it speaks of the beautiful shared single baby that's simultaneously in all their different bathtubs. It's the thing that generally all wise teachers of all religions and traditions have taught about and agreed with. In a sense, that baby is in all of us humans, in the bathwater of our unique lives and personas and personalities and egos. In a way, that baby is you. It is what my book calls the real you. No religion argues against it, because it is the thing we all know more than we know anything, even if our words and thoughts confuse us into false disagreement.
 
Generally speaking, all religions agree with each other and me and my book about the truth in my book: about the fictionality of this earthly world of forms and its superstitious illusions, and the obvious wrongness of ego-identification and egotisticalness, about the eternalness of the real you and fictionality of the unreal you, about spiritual freedom (a.k.a. self-discipline), self-responsibility, about grace and gracefulness, and about heavenly inner peace and unconditional love, meaning love for all people and all things, total unconditional acceptance, and infinite gratitude.

Different religions and traditions might include different bathwater with that same shared baby. But I don't challenge their bathwater. I have no dog in the fight of whose bathwater is best, cleanest, or clearest. If one bathwater is right and all the others wrong, I can't tell you which one it is, and I don't care regardless.
 
I don't challenge them, and generally, they all agree with me and my book.
 
We all see the baby and agree the baby is there. And we all want you—and everyone—to get the clarity to see that baby and let go of all the egotisticalness and Earthly illusions and spiritual slavery (i.e. lack of self-discipline) that might seem to obscure that beautiful baby or seem to hide that infinite source of infinite grace, infinite spiritual salvation, and infinite peace from you.
 
I will leave you with one final example: if you are an alcoholic and you go to an AA meeting, and your sponsor tells you that you "should" be free rather than be a slave to temptation and a slave to fear and a slave to other bodily urges/feelings and a prisoner of the comfort zone, and to that end your sponsor tells you that you "should" do this and you "shouldn't" do that, well then he or she is likely telling you things I would tell you, but just with sloppy words that taken literally would be utter gibberish and divisive nonsense. He or she is using words I would never use to do their best to tell you what I would tell you and do tell you in my book. The message the sloppy-word-using sponsor meant to send with their apparent gibberish is also my message; they just accidentally used apparent gibberish to send it.
 
Sometimes translation is more of an art than a science. 



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Current Philosophy Book of the Month

Zen and the Art of Writing

Zen and the Art of Writing
by Ray Hodgson
September 2024

2025 Philosophy Books of the Month

The Riddle of Alchemy

The Riddle of Alchemy
by Paul Kiritsis
January 2025

They Love You Until You Start Thinking For Yourself

They Love You Until You Start Thinking For Yourself
by Monica Omorodion Swaida
February 2025

2024 Philosophy Books of the Month

The Advent of Time: A Solution to the Problem of Evil...

The Advent of Time: A Solution to the Problem of Evil...
by Indignus Servus
November 2024

Reconceptualizing Mental Illness in the Digital Age

Reconceptualizing Mental Illness in the Digital Age
by Elliott B. Martin, Jr.
October 2024

Zen and the Art of Writing

Zen and the Art of Writing
by Ray Hodgson
September 2024

How is God Involved in Evolution?

How is God Involved in Evolution?
by Joe P. Provenzano, Ron D. Morgan, and Dan R. Provenzano
August 2024

Launchpad Republic: America's Entrepreneurial Edge and Why It Matters

Launchpad Republic: America's Entrepreneurial Edge and Why It Matters
by Howard Wolk
July 2024

Quest: Finding Freddie: Reflections from the Other Side

Quest: Finding Freddie: Reflections from the Other Side
by Thomas Richard Spradlin
June 2024

Neither Safe Nor Effective

Neither Safe Nor Effective
by Dr. Colleen Huber
May 2024

Now or Never

Now or Never
by Mary Wasche
April 2024

Meditations

Meditations
by Marcus Aurelius
March 2024

Beyond the Golden Door: Seeing the American Dream Through an Immigrant's Eyes

Beyond the Golden Door: Seeing the American Dream Through an Immigrant's Eyes
by Ali Master
February 2024

The In-Between: Life in the Micro

The In-Between: Life in the Micro
by Christian Espinosa
January 2024

2023 Philosophy Books of the Month

Entanglement - Quantum and Otherwise

Entanglement - Quantum and Otherwise
by John K Danenbarger
January 2023

Mark Victor Hansen, Relentless: Wisdom Behind the Incomparable Chicken Soup for the Soul

Mark Victor Hansen, Relentless: Wisdom Behind the Incomparable Chicken Soup for the Soul
by Mitzi Perdue
February 2023

Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature: How Civilization Destroys Happiness

Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature: How Civilization Destroys Happiness
by Chet Shupe
March 2023

The Unfakeable Code®

The Unfakeable Code®
by Tony Jeton Selimi
April 2023

The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are

The Book: On the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are
by Alan Watts
May 2023

Killing Abel

Killing Abel
by Michael Tieman
June 2023

Reconfigurement: Reconfiguring Your Life at Any Stage and Planning Ahead

Reconfigurement: Reconfiguring Your Life at Any Stage and Planning Ahead
by E. Alan Fleischauer
July 2023

First Survivor: The Impossible Childhood Cancer Breakthrough

First Survivor: The Impossible Childhood Cancer Breakthrough
by Mark Unger
August 2023

Predictably Irrational

Predictably Irrational
by Dan Ariely
September 2023

Artwords

Artwords
by Beatriz M. Robles
November 2023

Fireproof Happiness: Extinguishing Anxiety & Igniting Hope

Fireproof Happiness: Extinguishing Anxiety & Igniting Hope
by Dr. Randy Ross
December 2023

2022 Philosophy Books of the Month

Emotional Intelligence At Work

Emotional Intelligence At Work
by Richard M Contino & Penelope J Holt
January 2022

Free Will, Do You Have It?

Free Will, Do You Have It?
by Albertus Kral
February 2022

My Enemy in Vietnam

My Enemy in Vietnam
by Billy Springer
March 2022

2X2 on the Ark

2X2 on the Ark
by Mary J Giuffra, PhD
April 2022

The Maestro Monologue

The Maestro Monologue
by Rob White
May 2022

What Makes America Great

What Makes America Great
by Bob Dowell
June 2022

The Truth Is Beyond Belief!

The Truth Is Beyond Belief!
by Jerry Durr
July 2022

Living in Color

Living in Color
by Mike Murphy
August 2022 (tentative)

The Not So Great American Novel

The Not So Great American Novel
by James E Doucette
September 2022

Mary Jane Whiteley Coggeshall, Hicksite Quaker, Iowa/National Suffragette And Her Speeches

Mary Jane Whiteley Coggeshall, Hicksite Quaker, Iowa/National Suffragette And Her Speeches
by John N. (Jake) Ferris
October 2022

In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us All

In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us All
by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes
November 2022

The Smartest Person in the Room: The Root Cause and New Solution for Cybersecurity

The Smartest Person in the Room
by Christian Espinosa
December 2022

2021 Philosophy Books of the Month

The Biblical Clock: The Untold Secrets Linking the Universe and Humanity with God's Plan

The Biblical Clock
by Daniel Friedmann
March 2021

Wilderness Cry: A Scientific and Philosophical Approach to Understanding God and the Universe

Wilderness Cry
by Dr. Hilary L Hunt M.D.
April 2021

Fear Not, Dream Big, & Execute: Tools To Spark Your Dream And Ignite Your Follow-Through

Fear Not, Dream Big, & Execute
by Jeff Meyer
May 2021

Surviving the Business of Healthcare: Knowledge is Power

Surviving the Business of Healthcare
by Barbara Galutia Regis M.S. PA-C
June 2021

Winning the War on Cancer: The Epic Journey Towards a Natural Cure

Winning the War on Cancer
by Sylvie Beljanski
July 2021

Defining Moments of a Free Man from a Black Stream

Defining Moments of a Free Man from a Black Stream
by Dr Frank L Douglas
August 2021

If Life Stinks, Get Your Head Outta Your Buts

If Life Stinks, Get Your Head Outta Your Buts
by Mark L. Wdowiak
September 2021

The Preppers Medical Handbook

The Preppers Medical Handbook
by Dr. William W Forgey M.D.
October 2021

Natural Relief for Anxiety and Stress: A Practical Guide

Natural Relief for Anxiety and Stress
by Dr. Gustavo Kinrys, MD
November 2021

Dream For Peace: An Ambassador Memoir

Dream For Peace
by Dr. Ghoulem Berrah
December 2021


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