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[Sushan]

This topic is about the February 2023 Philosophy Book of the Month, Mark Victor Hansen, Relentless: Wisdom Behind the Incomparable Chicken Soup for the Soul by Mitzi Perdue

When your self-worth goes up, your net worth goes up with it.

--Mark Victor Hansen--

It's crucial to distinguish between the concept of ego and actual self-worth. Ego is often based on external factors such as wealth, status, and power. In contrast, true self-worth comes from within and is based on qualities such as integrity, compassion, and self-awareness. It's essential to keep ego separate from genuine self-worth to avoid getting caught up in the pursuit of external validation and material gain.

Moreover, it's worth noting that the idea that financial success is the ultimate indicator of self-worth is problematic. It implies that those who are struggling financially are somehow lacking in personal value, which is simply not true. Every individual has inherent worth and should be valued for who they are, not just their financial status.

So, while there may be a correlation between self-worth and net worth, it's important to remember that self-worth is not solely dependent on financial success. It's essential to cultivate a sense of inner worth based on personal values and qualities, rather than external factors.

In conclusion, what do you think is the most important factor in determining one's self-worth? Is it financial success, personal values, or something else entirely?

[Agent Smyth]

That's obviously an extremely dangerous course - you have to stay close to the shore but not too close. Bravo! You've scored a direct hit!

[Sushan]

That's obviously an extremely dangerous course - you have to stay close to the shore but not too close. Bravo! You've scored a direct hit!

Thank you for your comment! Indeed, finding the right balance between self-worth and the pursuit of success can be a delicate and challenging process. It's essential to recognize that self-worth should be primarily grounded in our personal values and qualities, rather than merely in financial success or other external factors.

Striking that balance involves maintaining a strong sense of self-awareness and understanding what truly matters to us. By focusing on personal growth, fostering meaningful relationships, and contributing positively to society, we can cultivate a healthy sense of self-worth that isn't solely reliant on material achievements.

It's always great to have open discussions about such topics, as they help us gain new perspectives and navigate the complexities of life more effectively.

[Victory Ositaorah]

I believe this is a situation of self worth and acknowledgement of value because we should know best of our values.

[Sushan]

I believe this is a situation of self worth and acknowledgement of value because we should know best of our values.

Reflecting on your belief in self-worth being linked to the acknowledgment of personal values, it's clear how this perspective aligns with a deeper philosophical understanding of what constitutes true worth.

In philosophy, particularly in existential and humanistic schools of thought, there's a strong emphasis on the intrinsic value of the individual. This value is often seen as deriving from one's internal qualities, such as integrity, compassion, self-awareness, and the ability to reflect on one’s life and choices. Jean-Paul Sartre, for example, emphasized the importance of self-authenticity and living in a manner that is true to one’s own values and beliefs.

Your viewpoint seems to echo this philosophical stance. It suggests that real self-worth is a product of an intimate understanding and acceptance of one's intrinsic values, not just external accomplishments or societal validation. This understanding can lead to a more profound and stable sense of self-esteem, as it is less likely to be shaken by external fluctuations such as financial status or social recognition.

I'm curious to know, how do you think one can cultivate this deeper sense of self-worth based on personal values? And in your experience, what are the challenges in maintaining this sense of intrinsic value in a world that often seems to measure worth by external success and achievements?