JackDaydream wrote: ↑December 4th, 2023, 4:50 am
Disentangling the issues of Christianity and organised religion was one of the main aspects which has directed my own philosophy quest. Since I was a teenager at school, I find that my reading life has always been central, possibly too much so at times. It as if I am trying to assemble a large jigsaw puzzle of ideas from various traditions and from the various disciplines of thought, which may be an endless quest as reality may be multidimensional.
Having come to Christianity late, to begin with, I embraced the bible as a narrative, and only later realised how my (even later) entry into nursing collided with that narrative and started questioning the exclusivist nature of the many churches. So in all, I’m a bit of a late-comer.
JackDaydream wrote: ↑December 4th, 2023, 4:50 am
One book which I came across was, 'The Plural Psyche', by Anthony Samuels, which is about building up a picture from different perspectives. It is similar to the notion of relativism but his one is not based on all ideas being merely relative, but about trying to find 'truth' by exploring what is helpful from different angles. Samuels' background was Jungian psychotherapy and Jung drew upon the collective aspects of religious ideas, East and West.
I am very clearly a pluralist in my approach and can’t imagine how it can be any other way. I orientate myself on Christianity, but roughly knowing how the biblical anthology came about and knowing a lot about the history of the Catholic Church, I am aware of the contradictory baggage that I take on with that. The problem is that I would have to live in a Taoist, Buddhist, or Vedantic community to embrace any of those in the same way but would also have some baggage to contend with there.
The “truth” is that we are drawing from our experience of a reality we do not understand. Our metaphorical attempts to relate spiritual experiences, which are deeply subjective, are restricted by language. So, with coexistence in mind, we can only listen with patience and empathy to each other and try to see existence from the point of view presented to us. Sometimes, it is beyond my ability; sometimes, it is different to my own experience, but it is understandable to some degree.
JackDaydream wrote: ↑December 4th, 2023, 4:50 am
In thinking about the underlying idea of coexistence and religion, the tension may be about the exoteric and esoteric. It does seem that most spiritual teachers, from Confucius, Jesus and the Buddha, had teachings which involved basic spiritual and ethical ideas of a similar nature as coexistent and parallels. However, when these are levelled down into institutional religion may where trouble enters, which is also connected to the politics of religion. This is extremely complicated because apart from Rome and Christendom there have been groups like the Templars and the Freemasons. The power structures which develop around the ideas of religion may distort the spiritual aspects of various teachings into a way which is so different from the original messages, leading to wars of ideas and literal wars too.
Institutionalised religion does seem to be the problem, as well as the need for authorities to dictate what is orthodox, accepted, or conforming and what is not. Reading my substack reading list, I came across this:
There has never been more hate in the world than there is today. It sounds like an exaggeration but when we study the term ressentiment it becomes obvious that because of our modern value system there has never been so much hate to go around. Negative as this sounds, this very same potential for hate is also the birth canal of all our progress including technologically and economically but also our social progress such as the abolishing of slavery, the freedom of all to vote and the possibility of social mobility. The modern dream of freedom and democracy casts a dark shadow; that dark shadow is ressentiment.
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Ressentiment is the fundamental emotion of the Culture Wars and even more than that it is the fundamental emotion of modern times. It is an inevitable part of democracy — baked as it is into the idea of equality. And as much as it is an essential component of modernity's favourite governance system, it is also the greatest threat to democracy — a trend we are seeing playing itself out in an increasingly unstable spiralling out of control that we are seeing in the 21st century. It is the emotional frequency of uncontained liminality.
https://thelivingphilosophy.substack.co ... dium=email
Resentment, a related emotion, does seem to be the cause of much of our contentions. The question is, then, how to prevent resentment. We could equally ask: how do we increase trust? The answer to that is by increasing trustworthiness. Reducing resentment would then involve fostering understanding, empathy, and communication. We would have to encourage open and honest communication, making sure all parties involved feel heard and understood and addressing issues as they arise rather than letting them fester.
We would try to understand the other person's perspective and emotions and put ourselves in their shoes, recognising that people may have different experiences, beliefs, and motivations that influence their actions. We would establish and communicate clear boundaries to prevent future conflicts, making sure that expectations are clear and realistic to avoid misunderstandings.
An aspect of religion that seems lost today is the practice of forgiveness for past grievances. We all know how holding onto grudges can perpetuate resentment, and still, resentment is rampant. The Eastern traditions help us understand that forgiveness is for our own peace of mind, without condoning the other person's actions.
Perhaps, instead of dwelling on the problem between us, we could shift the focus to finding solutions, and collaborate with the other person to work towards common goals or compromises. We could engage in positive interactions and activities together to strengthen our relationships and celebrate successes and achievements to create a positive environment.
If the resentment persists, we could consider involving a neutral third party, such as a mediator or counsellor, to facilitate communication and resolution. These used to be clerical members of the church, but we have lost the trust that might have been there.