I don't think any of us would have a problem with two parties to both agree with each other to have a willing, trusted third-party be involved in some way namely as a mediator. For instance, I think--not sure on the details--the company from which I rent my apartment has my security deposit in an escrow account at a third-party institution in my name. I cannot take that money out any time I want. But when the lease is up and all, I can get that money. This is done to meet state regulations but a similar process could be done in cases where I would trust a bank to determine if and when to give the security deposit to me or the landlord more than the landlord. In a more practical example, I may to buy a magazine from a person I don't trust and he doesn't trust me; I don't want to give him my money before I get the magazine and he doesn't want to give me the magazine before I give him the money. We might voluntarily agree to give both the money and the magazine to a trusted mutual friend who would then give the magazine to me and the money to him.
The difference is that the third-party wouldn't be a violent government or mafia or gangster using the threat of the initiation of violence to force someone to do something (in this case to do something they currently do not consent to but to which they promised in the past). It would just be a way for both parties to try to protect their interests to conduct a consensual transaction without using the initiation of violence.
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In regards to children, the severely mentally ill, the severely mentally retarded, or people who are too enfeebled by illness to be in proper charge of their actions, I agree with what I think is the general consensus in modern society which is that are often able to be considered unable to consent. In other words, a contract between a child and an adult would generally be considered non-consensual and thus invalid in any case. A sexual act between a child and an adult would be considered rape (i.e. non-consensual sex) in any case. I generally agree with the statutes to that effect. These types of statutes make it so that even if a or a severely mentally handicapped person who has been declared incompetent 4-year-old child says, "Yes" when asked by a regular adult about having sex the sex is statutorily non-consensual (i.e. statutory rape) and so that even if that severely mentally handicapped person or 4-year-old signs a contract saying they consent to giving $20 to an adult and then the child hands over the $20 without fight it would still be statutorily considered non-consensual (i.e. statutory theft). Indeed, mentally ill people often cannot even be charged with crimes like murder because it is statutorily believed that they are not really able to meet the legal qualification of
intention. Personally, I would want us to err on the side of not declaring people legally incompetent, such as having a lower age of consent or at court having tougher qualifications for declaring someone incompetent and having the burden of proof to be on the side trying to get someone declared incompetent.
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RBS wrote:The third option, which I think I understand to be Scott's solution would be to not allow any penalty when a promise has been agreed upon and then broken. I believe that this solution would lead to a stop of all trade and humankind would be stuck with the possesions that they have on hand and what they could produce on their own in the future. I say this because very few would be willing to do any trading without some sort of insurance that they would or could recoup the worth of the trade if the promiser(s) defaulted on the agreement.
Why do you think that would happen?
Consider all the international business done on the internet using currency like e-gold in which refunds and legal recourse are impossible in the case of a default on a promise or such. People use due diligence to research the trustworthiness of people before giving them money; they learn to spot scams (e.g. "If you send me $10 by Western Union, I'll send you your $1 billion lottery winnings to you a few days later."); they learn to conduct transactions in way that provides security without the threat of violence (e.g. "I'll send you 25% of the agreed price now and the rest after you finish.").
Consider the use of credit agencies and credit scores including organizations like the BBB.
Consider the use of actual literal insurance companies that will for a fee measure the risk associated with a certain business or business transaction and agree to reimburse you for certain types of losses.
What you have said has been proven false, I think, by the internet, which has been a huge boon to business especially in the cases where coercion isn't possible since you are communicating over the computer where you through which you can't physically batter someone and international law enforcement may not be available.
My entire political philosophy summed up in one tweet.
"The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master."
I believe spiritual freedom (a.k.a. self-discipline) manifests as bravery, confidence, grace, honesty, love, and inner peace.