Belindi wrote: ↑July 5th, 2022, 6:39 am
'Turn the other cheek' deserves the close attention of moral philosophers.
Turning the other cheek and forgiving is profound and where you can find a peace that surpasses all understanding.
Jesus taught to forgive, love and pray for our enemies. This is probably the toughest of all his commands, because in essence we are being asked to give up our claim for justice. Jesus would have been a hypocrite had he not done himself; as he taught others to do. When you read the story of the crucifixion; Jesus would need to forgive, love and pray for those who condemned him, beat him and those who nailed him to the cross. We know that Jesus prayed on the cross, 'Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do. As I understand the prayer of Jesus; he is saying to God, that when these people stand before you, please do not hold these crimes against them.
Jesus gave us the 'Lord's Prayer'; which we tell God what to do. We tell God to forgive us, in exactly the same way we forgive others. If we are not prepared to forgive others, we are telling God to do the same to us.
During my Street Pastor training, I decided in advance that if I was ever injured, I would forgive those responsible. This has only been put to the test once. We had finished our shift and were walking towards our cars, we saw a group of youths in an alley. Two of the lads walked towards us, and pointed at us saying, walk on.
I said to my mate that we should walk away. But he said, have you seen those other lads climbing over the garden fence. I then knew we were going to stay. We got hit and pushed around by the lads. The following day I had a phone call from the police saying, they had caught up with these lads, and could I come and make a statement. I said No.
I said I was a Christian, that I should love and forgive. If I write a statement, then I can no longer forgive. I did say I would be happy to meet up with the lads and listen to their story, but they must be allowed to walk away. The police said no, And I also said no to them.
We later found out; that the angriest lad had every right to be angry. He had never got on with his dad, then his dad was diagnosed with cancer, and they started to make up. Shortly after his dad died, we just happened to be in the wrong place at the right time.
I had worked with people who have challenging behaviour for about ten years, and without a day off sick. I have lost count of the number of times I have been hit supporting these guys. I brought some troubling issues to the attention of the directors. Shortly after, I believe I was unfairly sacked.
I asked if I could come back as a volunteer, they said No. Since being sacked, I have done about two thousand hours of voluntary work; for the company that sacked me. I wanted to keep in touch with the people I had been supporting. I took them to a club every week and twice a year I voluntarily took them on holiday.
I can truthfully say, it is easier to do two thousand hours of voluntary work, than to carry resentment and anger for ten years. Accepting the things you cannot change, gives you the power and motivation to do the things that are in your power to do. I have felt totally at peace going back and seeing the people I hold responsible for my sacking.
On two occasions I have come into contact with people who were in the process of ending their lives. Both had a similar story of suffering from an injustice; that was never going to be put right. I talked about the need to try and let go, so they do not spend their final hours on Earth feeling bitter and angry. If you can find it in your heart to forgive, you can then become the kind and caring person you want to be. Both had a good outcome.