LuckyR wrote: ↑June 4th, 2021, 2:04 am
Sushan wrote: ↑June 3rd, 2021, 12:01 pm
Barbara's dad used to be a doctor in a different era, with a different level of technology, and even different people. From that era to today, many things have been changed. It is not only the doctors that have changed, but also the patients. Their expectations have changed. All of us are in a busy world having busy lives. So there is no enough time to chat with a person and develop relationships. Those days family practitioners used to talk a lot with patients and even the patients were used to go their to just have a chat. But today neither of the parties can do that. And that is why a person does not feel as a human but as a number in front of a doctor, and a doctor does not see the patient as a human but as a set of illnesses to be taken care of. It is nothing more than a business.
Really? So the doc who hands you your newborn is engaging in a business transaction? Folks like to complain about the field of medicine, but those same people tend to like their personal doctor significantly more than other professionals they deal with.
When my kids were born, the doctor didn't stay in the room long enough to hand me (or the mom) the baby. He was in and out within about 5-10 minutes, if my memory serves correctly. The nurses didn't even try to get him until I could already my son's hairy head popping out.
I have a similar experience typically when I go to the dentist office. I might be there for about an hour, but the actual dentist (the one with a "Dr." before their name) is typically in the room for literally about 2 minutes. Generally, those 2 minutes are very near the end of my appointment, and many times they are the first time I am seeing or meeting that particular dentist ever, so whether or not I personally happen to like that particular dentist as a person personally more than the paid barber I use, or the guy who mows my lawn for money, or the paid teachers who teach my kids is a figurative roll of the die.
I certainly don't get the impression the dentist or other doctor would service me if he wasn't being paid, neither directly nor vicariously though the other paid staff at the office. It's clearly a business transaction--much like getting my lawn mowed by a paid lawn mowing guy, my kids educated at school by paid teachers in a big costly building, and getting my hair cut. However, for me, that's not a complaint.
I tend to be a down to business guy too, so actually I generally tend to like the dentists and other service providers (e.g. hair cutters) who are more efficient, professional, and less into the small talk and whatnot. In the case of doctors (e.g. dentists), by the time I find out if it's my kind of person (e.g. little to no small talk), it's too late, the job is done.
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"The mind is a wonderful servant but a terrible master."
I believe spiritual freedom (a.k.a. self-discipline) manifests as bravery, confidence, grace, honesty, love, and inner peace.