Belindi wrote: ↑August 18th, 2020, 5:11 am
Terrapin Station wrote: ↑August 17th, 2020, 9:29 pm
Right. We've had the conversation before. So you should know you're completely wrong. We can go step by step why again, but I doubt it will stick for reasons I already specified.
The socialmeaning of a word is what it denotes. Connotations may be either idiosyncratic and eccentric, or they may be part of social reality.
There are conventional (or we could say "social")
definitions of terms, where definitions are different than meanings (definitions being text, sound, etc. strings associated with a term). But re meaning, including denotation, that only works via an individual thinking about the definition in an associative, intentional (in the "aboutness" sense) manner. And as thinking, it cannot be literally shared (in the show and tell sense). It also can't be socially engineered, other than in a very indirect manner. Individuals may have very different denotations in mind where there is no way to easily discern this (because they're correlating different denotations with the same definitions, pointings, etc.) aside from the fact that long-term communication with them about the term in question may seem to be quirky or at least slightly off-kilter the longer the interaction goes on, but where it's very difficult if not impossible to pinpoint exactly where divergences are occurring, because the divergences are occurring in the stuff that's not shareable (again in the show and tell sense), not in the stuff that
is shareable.
So in other words, people can both say, "x is y" (where x is the same definiendum (word to be defined) for both, and y the same definiens (definition) for both, in terms of observable text or sound strings), and they can both point at something where they verbally agree, "Yeah,
that thing!" and so on, but the
pointing, whether textual, aural or gestural, only works
as pointing because each of them are thinking about it in an associative, intentional way. The textual, aural and gestural stuff can't refer
on its own. It requires someone to
think about it in an associative, intentional way. Textual, aural and gestural denotation is
intentional--it has an "aboutness" property, and
intentionality is the mark of the mental. That thinking can't be literally shared (it can only be correlated by the thinker with more textual, aural, gestural, etc. observables, where only the thinker knows the correlation between the observables and his/her thinking). And that thinking can be very different for each despite correlating it with the same observables. (A classic example is Quine's "gavagai," but where on my view, this can just as easily happen with people speaking the same language (or perhaps we should call that "the same language."))
So there are social definitions, but there is no social meaning, and meaning, both denotative and connotative, can vary wildly from individual to individual. We merely assume, for practical reasons, that it isn't varying too much until something starts to seem off-kilter in continued communicative interaction with someone, where we might not be able to peg quite where things are going askew.
Of course, sometimes people rather quickly are led to
different observables (text, sounds, gestures) when we try to figure out what's going askew, but they won't always be--some cases simply remain uncrackable, and since we're always talking about correlations that are unobservable, the different observables (terms, definitions, pointings, etc.) can actually be correlated to the
same (ignoring nominalist objections for a moment) mental content, making things more complicated.