Sculptor1 wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 12:28 pm
creation wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 11:22 am
As I meant, "I am living with 'them' [cognitive and learning disabilities] all the time", and because of those cognitive and learning disabilities, "I have still not learned how to be heard and fully understood yet by human beings". So, this is a result of MY cognitive and learning disabilities.
Thank you for the clarifying question.
Maybe, but because of my lack of ability to learn how to be fully heard and fully understood yet, I doubt that all of what I am actually saying and meaning has been taken in by others. There is two reasons for this doubt;
1. If I was being fully heard and fully understood, then people would comment.
False.
There may be several reasons why they would not choose to comment.
Well there is obviously no absolute false nor absolute true answer here. In other words there is no absolute correct answer.
As far as I am concerned IF what I am saying and meaning was being FULLY heard and FULLY understood, then far more people would be making far more comments. But obviously it is never going to be the case that ALL people would be commenting ALL of the time. So, you are absolutely right, in that regard. But, I am pretty certain that if what I am actually meaning was being FULLY understood, then there would be far more comments made.
We will just have to wait and see what happens when, and if, I ever gain the ability to be better heard and better understood. So far I obviously have a lot more to learn and understand about how to communicate far more successfully with human beings.
Sculptor1 wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 12:28 pm
2. As evidenced above I cannot string two sentences together without what I am saying not being fully understood.
As is evident, you can string several sentences together. You are just in denial.
I am just in denial of 'what' exactly?
Are you saying you FULLY understand exactly what I was saying previously in those two sentences of mine but you still just asked for clarification just for the sake of asking it?
Your Truly open and honest response would be most appreciated.
Also, OF COURSE I can string two sentences together but I rarely, if ever, am FULLY heard and get those sentences FULLY understood.
Sculptor1 wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 12:28 pm
I thought I was clearly writing that it was my sole fault and sole responsibility of why I am not yet being fully and fully understood, but even this I could not write in a way that was being fully heard and fully understood. So, I doubt very much that all of what I have said previously was all taken in the exact same way as I meant it.
This is very true. But I would prefer if any of what I say is just simply wrong, then that was just simply pointed out to me, and HOW and WHY it is wrong was shared.
Not if you are going to make stupid comments like "I can string two sentences together"
People are just not going to take you seriously
But I NEVER, and I will repeat NEVER, said, "I can string two sentences together" before this post here.
Now even if you made a mistake here and you meant that I did previously say, "I cannot string string two sentences together", then you still FORGOT TO ADD that I made it very CLEAR that that was in relation to SOME THING ELSE.
Now, if you purposely wrote "I can string two sentences together" because you KNEW or more correctly ASSUMED that that was what I was going to write in this post, then you still FORGOT TO ADD that 'Of course 'I can string to sentences together'
but I rarely, if ever, am FULLY heard and get those sentences FULLY understood'.
If any one just said what you propose here
alone, then I would hope you or no one else would take them seriously. But what can be clearly seen is that I have NEVER said anything like what you have proposed, by itself. You have obviously taken this out of context of what I said and meant.
What I say really does need to be taken in context with the rest of what I have said. Otherwise, if people continued to do what you are doing, by taking what I say out of context, then they would also be doing what you are doing, and that is; not taking what I say seriously.
You are obviously showing that you are NOT fully hearing me and NOT fully understanding what I am saying and meaning, even when what I have said and meant is in the EXACT SAME sentence. You are obviously just wanting to grabbed and latch onto absolutely any thing, which you think will "justify" your own already held beliefs and assumptions. You are obviously NOT fully hearing me nor fully understanding what it is that I am saying and pointing out here.
Sculptor1 wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 12:28 pm
That would help me tremendously in learning how to be fully heard and fully understood better.
But I do totally understand why some people do not want to help me at all in being better heard and better understood.
I would not. Unless, of course, SOME ONE was to SHOW me what 'biases' they thought or believe I have, FIRST.
Bias is necessary; it is the essence of opinion. Without that you can only remain silent.
If you BELIEVE this to be absolutely true, then go right ahead and continue BELIEVING whatever you want to believe is true.
But, you 'trying to' "justify" your behaviors does NOT show to me what you BELIEVE my supposed "biases" ARE exactly. And, if you do not want to share your views in this regard, then so be it. I cannot make you do anything that you do not really want to do anyway.
Sculptor1 wrote: ↑April 14th, 2020, 12:28 pm
Is ANY one willing to do this?
Just like for some one it is a lot harder to learn from others how to do things better, if they are not being told what they are doing wrong, by the others in the first place, so to it is a lot harder for some one to know the biases they have, if they are not being told what those biases are, by others.
But we ALL have to remember that just because some people might see 'wrong' and/or 'biases' in another's writings, then that obviously does NOT mean that they are actually there. Because obviously the ones seeing the alleged 'wrong' and/or 'biases' might be 'wrong' and/or 'biased' them self.
We will only KNOW if the others express what they see as being 'wrong' and/or a 'bias' FIRST.
Obviously, from my perspective, I have yet to see where I am wrong or bias, and if no one is game enough or bothered enough to SHOW and HIGHLIGHT this to me or the readers, then we might NEVER see them at all.
I Truly LOVE and ENJOY being SHOWN the errors of my way, especially through clarifying questions and being challenged. So, maybe if others do NOT really want to challenge me nor question me in regards to what I say, then that might be a sign that what I say is not a big factor nor relevance to their own 'biases'?
I wonder what my biases, if any, could be, in relation to what I have said so far?
It appears that at least this one here is not willing to share what they believe my biases are. Hopefully there may be other ones who will? The one appears to just want to claim that I have biases, but also does not want to back this up with any supporting evidence at all. One's own belief that they cannot speak without biases is NOT evidence at all of the supposed "biases" they claim I have, and obviously does not support anything at all, other than their own attempts at 'trying to' "justify" their own strongly held onto biases as being necessary for their ability to speak or not, which, when looked at FULLY is obviously very funny indeed to say the least.