Teh wrote:Can you please provide some sources? I, for one, would be very interested.
This is nonsense. A water wave is a physical thing. The equations describing it refer to an element of reality. The wavefunction is not a physical thing (an experimentally verified fact) and it does not refer to an element of reality.
To everyone else...
I've missed quite a bit in this discussion, and trying to play catch up. I think my views are best mirrored by Steve's. I would like to add one more analogy, which is bound to be poor because it is regarding QM. This is how I imagine attempting to "observe" a particle. Imagine that the only sense you had was the sense of touch. The particle is represented by a pendulum in motion. You have no other instrument but your hand. You may find the position by holding out your hand and grabbing it, but you cannot know how fast it was going, or what exact path it has taken to get there. The pendulum is following a wave like motion, until you stop it with your hand. You can try and find out the speed, by lightly touching it without stopping it, but then you no longer know its position because you have affected it by touching it. Particles are like a swinging pendulum, only in three dimensions. At the quantum level, the only sense that we have is touch. We can't hear, smell, see or taste a particle. We can only touch it with another particle.
I hope this helps in some way.
One more comment, if I may. The "observer effect" that I've described is only the experimental confirmation of the underlining wave mathematics. In that, you may not know both the position and velocity of a particle with a degree of accuracy greater then h(reduced Plank's constant).