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Discuss the November 2022 Philosophy Book of the Month, In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us All by Eckhart Aurelius Hughes.

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I often talk about the incredible enriching power of graceful invincible inner peace (a.k.a. true happiness) and the corresponding consistently graceful abundance mindset that goes hand-in-hand with it.

While so many humans desperately chase fulfillment with things that will never make them feel fulfilled (e.g. money, fame, alcohol, gambling, drugs, sex, food, bodybuilding results in the gym, etc.), I, in contrast, have invincible fulfillment (a.k.a. inner peace and true happiness) from the get-go, and through that fact and the corresponding abundance mindset that comes with it, built on not being desperate, clingy, miserable, jealous, greedy, possessive, etc, I end up typically getting much more access to those kinds of things (e.g. money, attention, good reputation, alcohol, gambling and seemingly incredibly good luck, drugs, sex, food, bodybuilding results in the gym, etc.). Happy people like me end up getting more of those those unfulfilled idolizers who chase them desperately in a futile attempt to use those false idols to fulfill themselves.

Neither money nor success in the gym with your physical fitness goals nor any of those other things I mentioned will buy you happiness (a.k.a. inner peace), but true happiness will typically get you those things. In a rough way of speaking, money doesn't buy happiness, but happiness buys money. By not desperately chasing after those things out of some desperate sad sense of spiritual unfulfillment, those things instead seem to chase me.

If you don't make the foolish mistake of thinking you need one or all of those things to be truly happy (i.e. have inner peace), then those things seem to chase you. Part of the basic logic is tautological and true by definition: If you realize you don't need money, then you will therefore instantly have more money than you need. But there's a deeper and more practical manifestation of this, in that miserable, desperate, greedy, clingy people tend to do more poorly in their professional careers, romantic relationships, and so and so forth. Their addictive personality, in which they desperately chase fulfillment with externals will never fulfill them, chases away those externals. If you have ever been on a first date with someone who is super desperate, then you know exactly what I mean. But it doesn't just happen in romantic contexts, but generally all contexts. In other words, desperation, jealousy, and possessiveness doesn't just chase away romantic or sexual partners and twist romantic relationships into abusive nightmares, it has that effect on all relationships, money matters, professional endeavors, and external goals. One's spiritual fulfillment (i.e. lack of free-spirited inner peace) leads to desperation and clingy possessiveness which chases away the external things they foolishly and falsely think are needed for fulfillment/happiness (e.g. romantic success, professional success, financial success, success with exercise/dieting, etc.).

So I want to take the opportunity with this post to elaborate a bit on that incredible enriching power of graceful gracious invincible inner peace (a.k.a. true happiness), or in other words on how being happily fulfilled spiritually (and therefore having a grateful abundance mindset) tends to incredible external success, meaning success in ways that to someone like me don't matter much but to unhappy desperate unfulfilled people seeking fulfillment matter a lot, since they foolishly think they need things like money, alcohol, marriage, or sex to be happy. This power that I and those other few truly happy people in the world like me have is so incredible that it's functionally supernatural.

Here is a quote I believe that is very helpful towards understanding the supernatural power about which I am speaking:

"What stands in the way becomes the way."
- Marcus Aurelius (Roman emperor and stoic philosopher)

Whatever proverbial cards you get dealt, find the way to use that specific hand to your advantage such that you say, "perfect". Learn to use your opponent's force against him, not just in the sense of literal human opponents but also in the broadest most figurative and spiritual senses of those words. Learn to see everything as a blessing, with some just more disguised than others. That is grace. It is to do, without trying. It is to accept and play, rather than bitch, waste, and squander, or perhaps worse dishonestly deny.

The impediment action advances actions. What stands in your path becomes a stepping stone on your journey, one that may lead you to heights you never would have achieved otherwise. When you learn how to use your opponent's force to your advantage, then you smile thankfully when he throws even more force against you. When you learn to see opportunities in the mud, you are thankful when even more mud gets thrown at you and the situations get even muddier. When you learn to have grace under fire, you become even more graceful when there is even more fire, and then you are thankful for more fire. If anything, you wish for even more fire. Grace shines under fire like light shines in the dark; it exists not despite it, but thanks to it.

Fully and unconditionally accept the proverbial cards you are dealt, with an acceptance so full and unconditional it warrants being called love, and thereby play those cards the absolute best you can, and thus also way better than almost any other human, such that it seems like you're supernatural, like you are a god walking among men. You will be so graceful and achieve such incredible success with such grace and infinite ease, people will call you god-like.

Almost all humans waste some of their very valuable and very limited time, energy, and resources on forms of unaccepetance such as hate, resentment, unforgiveness, self-delusional dishonesty, and/or judgementalism, and most do it much more than merely some. In other words, almost all humans waste some, most, or effectively all of their very limited time and energy bitching about the proverbial cards that are dealt. Thus, if you don't, you will therefore play cards much better than almost all humans, simply by choosing to not wastefully throw your valuable time, money, or energy at that which you cannot control or cannot change. Most humans are so incredibly wasteful with their time, money, and energy that, if you aren't, you become like god-like in comparison.

In short, unconditionally love the proverbial cards you are dealt and thereby play those cards supernaturally well.

And even shorter: Just love everything and thereby become supernatural.


#Übermensch #Superhuman #JustLoveEverything


With love,
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes
a.k.a. Scott


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In addition to having authored his book, In It Together, Eckhart Aurelius Hughes (a.k.a. Scott) runs a mentoring program, with a free option, that guarantees success. Success is guaranteed for anyone who follows the program.
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Your concept on the liberating power of unconditional love and acceptance is thought-provoking. It suggests that by fully embracing the circumstances we're dealt, without resentment or resistance, we can navigate life with a sense of grace that elevates our experiences to something extraordinary. This concept resonates with me deeply. It's a reminder that our perspective and attitude are often the gatekeepers to peace and success. The idea that "what stands in the way becomes the way" is a perspective I strive to hold onto, especially when faced with challenges. It's about turning obstacles into stepping stones, which isn't just philosophical but a practical approach to living a resilient and fulfilling life.
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Hi, :)

Thank you for your wisdom in terms of approaching life.
I love life, even when it sometimes hurts and when the fear of darkness can be felt on my breath and I do not understand what is happening.
I love love and this very love makes my existence beautiful and also very challenging in the sense that I tend not to fit in most circles of existence ( in terms of relationships).

Where I come from, you are taught love and this love is about meeting expectations and control. At first, I was confused by it but then I questioned it. This act of questioning such ideas I have learned is not welcomed and can even fuel hatred.

I grew up in a Christian upbringing and my grandparents are a mixture of North and South Indian Culture, with members practicing the Islamic faith too. We lived among mixed races as well.
It has always bothered me about human behavior and our idea of love across all races and cultures. We all want to be loved ( by " our ideas of affection " and material things mostly) but do not give this love out in the same way and it causes so much turmoil. It never made any sense to me.

One of my favorite Bible quotes on love ;
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV) Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.


And common universal code of conduct in all other religious and cultural teachings points to:
Honoring, respecting, and loving ALL of creation,

However, I have seen people and still do hear it in daily conversations, declare love and liberation but express hate and dictatorship in small subtle ways. I have observed that there is so much of a limitation on love and where it can and "must" be applied.
I understand that this is inherent in all of us and it is a matter of becoming aware of our ego and tapping into our inner grace. Love can only be expressed from the liberation of our ego.
Your views on this have given my own life's observations better clarity on my approach and expression of love. I trust that as I choose to live with conscious love ( even if it's misunderstood a lot), this love and grace in approaching my life and all it presents at every moment will spread like wildfire, fueling the parts of consciousness in the divine symphony in its full potential.

Warm regards

Jenna
In It Together review: https://forums.onlinebookclub.org/viewt ... p?t=508012
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"Learn to see everything as a blessing, with some just more disguised than others. That is grace. It is to do, without trying. It is to accept and play, rather than bitch, waste, and squander, or perhaps worse dishonestly deny. "

If there is anything I continually tell myself, it is this. It has helped me in that I am unable to see anything as a misfortune or a bad day or a bad choice. I tell myself, whatever choice I made in the moment I was dealt that situation would always be the right choice. I may be wiser in a few years to come and make a different decision for that same scenario, but that does not make my first choice a wrong choice. It was the right choice for the level I was at.

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