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Jaidyn Taylor wrote: ↑June 8th, 2023, 1:08 pm Couldn’t you be happy to sacrifice your happiness for someone else? I give up my time every day to my kids, and ultimately my time makes me happy, doing things I want to do. I can’t do those things anymore because of my children, but I never hesitate to do those things because sacrificing for my children makes me happy. So I guess I’m not sacrificing my happiness then? This is definitely a loaded questionI can definitely relate to this with my two kids. I also wonder if it's really a "sacrifice" if we are happy to do it? Or.does the lack of time make it feel like a sacrifice sometimes? E.g.: sometimes I need to fill my cup first in order for it not to feel like a sacrifice when I give to others (even if I love them very much).
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote: ↑November 1st, 2022, 12:20 pm This is a discussion forum topic for the November 2022 Philosophy Book of the Month, In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us AllIn as much as the statement is almost direct, one must attempt to read the chapter to know more. While it may seem counterintuitive, true love isn't merely about surrendering one's happiness for the sake of another; instead, it's a harmonious blend of selflessness and shared joy. In a profound connection, partners discover fulfillment in contributing to each other's well-being. Rather than viewing sacrifices as burdensome obligations, true love transforms them into opportunities for mutual growth. It's a dynamic interplay where both individuals willingly invest time, effort, and sometimes personal desires to nurture the relationship. Sacrifice in love should not be a one-sided ledger, but a mutual exchange where the happiness derived from making your partner's life better becomes its own reward. It's about finding delight in the act of giving, creating a reciprocity that strengthens the bond between two people. In this dance of mutual sacrifice, the partners become co-authors of a unique narrative, blending their individual melodies into a harmonious and resonant symphony. Ultimately, true love transcends the conventional notion of sacrifice as a burdensome duty. Instead, it becomes a celebration of shared experiences, a collaboration where both partners willingly contribute to each other's happiness. In this way, the beauty of true love lies not in self-denial but in the genuine joy that arises from being happy to sacrifice for the one you love.
Here is a quote from the book which appears on page 174 (of the hardcover):
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote:True love is not sacrificing your happiness for another; true love is being happy to sacrifice."
What do you you think?
Does the above sentence retain its meaning well even when quoted out of context as above? Or does one really need to read the book and especially the chapter containing that quote to fully capture its meaning?
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Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote: ↑November 1st, 2022, 12:20 pm This is a discussion forum topic for the November 2022 Philosophy Book of the Month, In It Together: The Beautiful Struggle Uniting Us AllYeah, it absolutely retains its meaning even if it is quoted out of context. Reading the book will surely give the reader a different perspective. It is so true that true love is not sacrificing your happiness for another, true love is being happy to sacrifice.
Here is a quote from the book which appears on page 174 (of the hardcover):
Eckhart Aurelius Hughes wrote:True love is not sacrificing your happiness for another; true love is being happy to sacrifice."
What do you you think?
Does the above sentence retain its meaning well even when quoted out of context as above? Or does one really need to read the book and especially the chapter containing that quote to fully capture its meaning?
true-love.jpg
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